let’s all take a minute to stop and think about how Hagrid gave Harry his homemade birthday cake, told him how much he looked like his parents, and fed him sausages before he even started to explain that he was a wizard
let’s stop to think about how his absolute first priority was to let harry know that he was loved and cared for
Was it something special or just another way out?
I realize that our early conversations were exclusively concerned with systemic forms of patriarchy. He was never interested in how his personal actions were misogynistic.
I would be happy going home and cooking dinner while being silly together. I’d be ok with snuggling while we ate and watched hulu. I wouldn’t mind spending the day working on our respective crafts separately but in the same room and stealing a kiss here and there.
Just saying. I’m not exactly opposed to any of this.